It is my belief that communication is one of, if not the, most important part of a relationship. However having said this I have learned that communication has three parts. These are;
1) Express
2) Listen
3) Act
For most people, myself included, part 1 to be the easiest to follow. Of course, others also know that Part 2 is eminently essential for communication to work.
Where I have faltered in the past, however, is the part that makes “communication” really work to strengthen a relationship. After expressing your self and hearing what the other has to say, the next step is to act on this exchange of information, setting in motion events/actions that will strengthen the foundations of ones relationship. Strengthen your foundations enough… then the sky will be the limit.
Aside: Have you ever had someone in your life that constantly makes you want to be a better person. I think if you ever find such a person u should hold on to them, I certainly plan to.
7 comments:
How tweet! I'm happy 4 both of you!..... no really I am.....why does no one believe me
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww sniff, tear
My gosh... what is going on??? Seriously, Mark, no need to try so hard to gain nookie points... easy with the mushy stufff :P
I will just heartily agree with your realizations on communication in relationships. :-)
Also want to add make sure the expressing is done without intentions to hurt, and the listening is done with an open mind. This makes the acting upon much easier.
i am totally stunned. i never knew you could feel. i am speachless.
... daaaaaaaaamn sing along now 'dum dum dum Another one bites the dust!'
Where did you find it? Interesting read » »
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